Whenever I’m coaching a guy or giving him help in the chat group, one of the biggest issues that I hear from them is that they can’t approach girls in public. They want to, but they just… can’t.
I get it completely, approach anxiety is a real issue that I’ve addressed in many of my videos so far.
However, for a lot of guys, they have a tough time with this for more reasons than just basic anxiety.
For a good number of our community, they are just too naturally introverted to go up to a girl and start up a conversation, even if they want to.
As I’m sure you’ve noticed, I’m not an introvert myself. In fact, I’m probably the farthest thing from it. This makes it a bit difficult for me to understand where these guys are coming from and what their issues are. After all, as cool-dude gangster rapper Coolio taught us, “If they can’t understand me, how can they reach me?”
However, after thinking on this issue for a while and having some in-depth conversations with the guys who struggle with this, I’ve come up with a simple 3-step process to help anyone approach women, no matter how introverted you think you are.[Read more…] about How to Approach for Introverts