The Seoul Player

And the Korean Women who Love Him

The Seoul Player – New and Improved with Boot Camps!

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So you wanna become a player?

You’re in the right place!

If you’re here, then chances are good that you’re looking to improve your success with women.

Perhaps you have problems with approaching attractive women you see or when you meet them you don’t know what to say?

You want to get the number of a pretty girl you just met?

Maybe you are able to take women on dates, but then you don’t know how to make the move to get them back home?

Or maybe you already have decent success but want to improve?

Your fantasy can now become reality!

After years of coaching fellow aspirants like yourself, the time has finally come for me to open up my services to the public.

I am happy to announce that I am now taking on select clients for one-on-one coaching as well as small group coaching in the form of weekend-long boot camps.

These boot camps will be held only one weekend a month with:

3 days of training and practice

Over 10 hours of targeted instruction

Over 15 hours of in-field practice and training

… and Korea-specific information to maximize your success with the most beautiful Korean women! [Read more…] about The Seoul Player – New and Improved with Boot Camps!

Types of Korean Girls – The Shy Girl

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Shy Korean Girl

QUICK STATS

LOOKS: 4-8

ONS: 10%-35%

LTR: Medium to High desirability

Who is The Shy Girl?

The Shy Girl can be a fun girl to meet if you play your game right.  While Shy Girls have a high correlation to prudishness, they aren’t necessarily true prudes.  They are definitely shy in public, it doesn’t mean that they will be shy behind closed doors or that they aren’t interested in talking when you meet them.

Shy girls, like a lot of shy guys, want to have good conversations and positive experiences but often don’t know how to make them happen.  This is part of your job as a player, helping her to get out of her shell a little bit and experience things in a different way than she could by herself.

One mistake that a lot of extroverts make (most players are extroverts whether naturally or by necessity) is that they assume if a Shy Girl is quiet that it means she isn’t having fun.  This is a false assumption and often leads to an otherwise strong interaction being cut short unnecessarily. This makes your ramble routine especially important when dealing with a Shy Girl. [Read more…] about Types of Korean Girls – The Shy Girl

Types of Korean Girls – The Worker Bee

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Korea's Female Worker Bee

QUICK STATS

LOOKS: 4-6+

ONS: 20% – 35%

LTR: Low to Medium desirability

Who Is The Worker Bee?

The Worker Bee’s most notable feature, as her name suggests, is that she is focused almost single-mindedly on her work and career.  She drank the Kool-Aid and honestly believes that having a career of super long work days and no weekends off is the key to success and happiness.

Because of this, there’s a very good chance that if you meet or even date a Worker Bee, you likely won’t ever know very much about her or her personality.  Much of her sense of self-worth comes from her job, so she most likely works in some sort of high status position such as for Samsung or LG. Any personality outside of working, having dinner with coworkers, and complaining about work will be minimal to nonexistent.

Because of this heavy investment in her studies and career, the Worker Bee’s looks are very rarely optimal.  They tend to dress and groom themselves in a more practical manner than one that emphasizes beauty. Most Worker Bees tend to have shorter hair as it’s easy to maintain, and they rarely wear heels if they can get away with it.  You’ll have to break her of the habit of wearing teacher dresses and mom jeans if you want to be proud when you take her in public. A trip to the local department store for a makeover will do wonders for her looks and make her feel much prettier around you. A lot of them will appear somewhat frumpy at first but may be hiding a gem beneath. Compliment her appearance when she tries hard, but discourage her bad fashion and makeup decisions. [Read more…] about Types of Korean Girls – The Worker Bee

The Return of the Player

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What’s going on players?!

As I’m sure you’ve noticed, I’ve had an… extended hiatus here.  More specifically, I’ve been missing in action from this site for about a year and a half.

What happened to you, Jack?  Are you still in Korea? Are you even still alive?  I got these questions and many more like them in my inbox every single week for the last 18 months or so.

First of all, yes I’m still alive.  Yes, I’m still answering all my emails and yes, I’m still teaching guys how to be successful with Korean women.  Worry not, young padawan, Papa Jack is still kicking, playing, and going strong!

A lot has changed in my life since I last wrote.  Part of that has been by choice and part of it has been an inevitable change and growth as I’ve been growing older.  Overall, these changes have all been a net positive for me, and for you dear reader, they will surely be a boon to you as I now have more stories and experiences to share with you as I guide you down the precarious path of pooze. [Read more…] about The Return of the Player

Picking Up Asian Women – Korea vs. Japan Edition (Ft. Social Sinapse)

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Podcast

This last week I got an email from my good friend Sinapse over at Attraction Japan asking to do a podcast together and talk about the similarities and differences between pickup in Japan and Korea.

Read More: Attracting and Picking up Women in Japan

We sat down together and talked for a little more than an hour about all sorts of things from meeting women on the street to our daily lives and how important the language barrier is in each country.

Some other topics we touched on include:

-Our expectations vs. the reality of picking up girls in Japan and Korea

-Our own beginnings with game, what brought us to it, and how we began learning it

-What our bread and butter game is like

-What mistakes guys often make when they first arrive in East Asia

We had a great time talking about all this stuff, and I think there’s a lot of stuff in there for readers from Korea, Japan, or anywhere in the world.  One universal truth about game is that game is universal everywhere – just with different styles and variations.

You can listen to the podcast below on the page or find the soundcloud here.

What do you guys think?  Would you like to hear more podcasts?  If so, what kind of topics would you like to hear covered?  Let me know in the comments below!

Til next time players!

-JN