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How to Tinder in Korea – Part 2

November 27, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Welcome to Part 2 of our explanation of Tindering in Korea.  Our topic today is pictures.  Just like Part 1, this will have one style from Julius and then a different style from me.  Let us know which ideas best fit your style by sending an email here!

PICTURES

JULIUS: Arguably the most arbitrary reason for which direction we swipe on a person and likely why we use tinder are because of their profile pictures. This is what will determine 99% of a woman’s interest in you. Just as how we judge them for their pictures and swipe, they do the same albeit at a much harsher rate. For my friends that complain about their lack of success on tinder is usually due to the quality and content of their pictures. Since tinder allows you to connect your Facebook profile, be sure to choose your best pictures. Ensure success by making your profile picture your best picture. Like any dating website, your profile picture is what you use to get their attention and what usually leaves a lasting impression. So make it the one that counts the most. Make it interesting. How? Being in South Korea shows that you’ve probably traveled to other places and seen some interesting things. Put a picture of you standing in front of a palace or other historical monuments. Been to another country? Show pictures of yourself visiting those places. I’ve used photos of myself visiting Japan and Thailand to garner interest and help with conversation with a match. Make yourself look interesting doing things most people have never done before, like mountain hiking or posing in one of Asia’s many skyscrapers with a sweeping view of the city behind you. Try to stand out from the usual shirtless-beer-drinking-guy-at-the-mudfest crowd. [Read more…] about How to Tinder in Korea – Part 2

How to Tinder in Korea – Part 1

November 26, 2015 by Jack North 4 Comments

seoulplayer tinder koreaHey there, players!  I’ve received a lot of interest and feedback asking for more information about Tinder in Korea.  I am personally not a big fan of it, but I recognize that there is a desire to hear more advice about it.  Fortunately for you guys, my close friend Julius likes Tinder and has a lot to say about it.

Because it’s a topic that has generated such interest, we’ve decided to write out our advice for the different aspects of Tinder as a back and forth column.  For each section, Julius will give you his advice first and then I will give a second opinion and advice.  We’ve both had success with online dating, but we have very different styles, so hopefully one of us will resonate with your personal style. [Read more…] about How to Tinder in Korea – Part 1

Be Honest With Yourself

November 25, 2015 by Jack North 5 Comments

“If you know the enemy and know yourself,

you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.”

-Sun Tzu, The Art of War

Here at the Seoul Player and in many other similar man-friendly spaces online, we spend a lot of time talking about understanding women.  We try to understand what they want, what attracts them, how to make ourselves more attractive to them and the like.  One subject that we rarely touch on though is knowing ourselves within.  This is one of the most important steps that one should take before even setting foot out the door to try to meet women.

This honesty needs to come in several key areas: Intentions and Desires, View of Self, and Realistic Future. [Read more…] about Be Honest With Yourself

How to Convert Numbers into Dates

November 24, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

This last weekend I was having a chat with a new member of the Players Union and he hit me with a situation that I didn’t have an answer for off the top of my head.

He told me that he has no problem approaching Korean girls and getting their numbers or even getting dates and kisses from them, but he was having trouble converting these into reliable dates and sex.  So the question came up: How can I improve my conversion rate?

In other words, how can I take these girls I meet and actually get dates and sex from it? [Read more…] about How to Convert Numbers into Dates

Can I Meet Women in My Own Country?

November 6, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Hey there players!  This post comes from J.D. over at The Social Lifestyle.  Go check out his other writings too, the guy has a lot of great stuff to say.  He’s provided a much needed native Asian view for us today, explaining the mindset needed to meet and pick up girls in your own home country.  This article should help our Korean readers become more confident with talking to and meeting women here at home.

Something that comes up time and time again from guys who first learn about cold approach pick up is that they think “it only works in the Western context.” It’s as though somehow they are a different species of humans and have totally different socio-behavioral cues.

Sure, if you’re comparing Saudi Arabia to USA, for example, there are laws or sanctions against publicly interacting with members of the opposite sex, then it may make sense to say that.

But if you’re living in a Westernized, progressive society, saying that women in your country can’t be approached is definitely ridiculous—especially if you haven’t tried it yourself. [Read more…] about Can I Meet Women in My Own Country?

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