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How Much Do Looks Matter?

September 23, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Good looks.  Physical attractiveness.  Handsomeness.  Ruggedness.  Allure, glamor, or shapeliness.  Whatever you want to call it, it’s one of the most basic building blocks of attraction and seduction.  Those who have it know it, and those who don’t have it wish they did.  Thousands of guys all around the world believe that they could never attract a woman because they don’t think of themselves as good looking.  But then there are just as many anecdotes floating around about very average looking guys that get with stunningly hot women.  This begs the question and a real discussion:

How much do looks REALLY matter? [Read more…] about How Much Do Looks Matter?

Learn From Your Friends’ Mistakes

September 22, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Hey players!  Another guest post from my good friend Julius to give you a different perspective.  Follow his advice here and always learn from your friends’ mistakes! -Jack

Having been in Korea a few years, I’ve made a few mistakes of my own by also have seen others do much worse. Ironically, I learned the most through others’ mistakes.

I had a friend in Korea that lived two hours away from Seoul by train in the countryside. Mildly attractive and with a decent enough personality, I thought that he would be a hit with women, foreign and domestic. He would consistently ask our large group of friends and me for advice on meeting women and what to do. He struck out so often with women that it became an ongoing joke. How did someone like him, by no means a socially awkward weirdo, manage to find misery in a country where so many find success? Here’s what he did and what you should avoid. [Read more…] about Learn From Your Friends’ Mistakes

The 2 Biggest Mistakes Guys Make in Text Game

September 18, 2015 by Jack North 2 Comments

In Korea text game is absolutely essential.  More than 90% of the girls that I’ve met and dated will all but completely refuse to talk on the phone, even with their own friends and family using their native language.  Instead they prefer to always text instead, which can be either a help or a hindrance to you depending on how you use it.

I’ve written before about the importance of KakaoTalk in Korea, the go-to messaging app choice for Koreans.  Using the app is a step in the right direction, but even from that point you have to tighten up your text game.  In order to do that, it’s crucial to avoid the two biggest mistakes I’ve seen guys make when talking to Korean girls:

  1. You’re texting too much.
  2. You’re not texting enough.

I know that seems counterintuitive at first glance, but follow me as I explain these problems and how to fix them. [Read more…] about The 2 Biggest Mistakes Guys Make in Text Game

Why Should She Be Interested in You?

September 15, 2015 by Jack North 1 Comment

We’ve all had the experience of being out and seeing an average looking guy with a great looking girl.  This is even more common in Korea, where it’s generally easier to shoot above your number than in the western world.  She’s falling all over him, they’re laughing and having a good time, and it seems like he’s able to effortlessly keep the conversation going forever.  Guys look on in awe and then try to copy openers, lines and routines from things they read online, confused when it doesn’t work like what they see. [Read more…] about Why Should She Be Interested in You?

How to Date an Average Korean Girl as an Average Guy

September 13, 2015 by Jack North 4 Comments

Hey players, this is a guest post from Julius out in the field.  Enjoy!  You can send any thoughts, comments or guest post ideas to jacknorth@theseoulplayer.com.

Going to Korea for the first time can be extremely overwhelming. For many, it’s the first time away from home and a familiar environment. Not only are you experiencing culture shock with the mannerisms of the people, you also don’t know the language and how to communicate with others… especially with Korean women. You suddenly find yourself not being able to communicate effectively at all, resorting to clumsily pointing and gesturing in the hopes of getting what you want to eat. If ordering food is one of the most challenging things at first, how on earth would you ask out a Korean woman, let alone date one? Luckily, most Korean women our age are interested in meeting a foreigner, regardless of race or country of origin. So it’s not that hard. Here’s how. [Read more…] about How to Date an Average Korean Girl as an Average Guy

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