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How Long Should I Stay in Korea?

March 8, 2016 by Jack North 1 Comment

SinatraMyWayWhen I first moved to Korea back in late October of 2009, I was 23 years old.  I was coming for a year to experience something new and different before I moved home to begin my ‘real life.’

One month into my time here, I hated it.  Let’s be honest, winter in Korea blows.  It’s the absolute worst, and it really didn’t help that I was living in a small city in the middle of nowhere.  I couldn’t wait to get back home.

Then about halfway through my first year, I hit a super high point – summer.  Summer time in Korea is, without a doubt, the best times you’ll have here.  Now all of a sudden I was glad I lived in the center of Korea because I could go to Seoul or Busan without much trouble either way.  A weekend trip to the beach?  Perfect!  A Saturday rooftop party in Hongdae?  Why not?

By the end of my first year, I knew that I didn’t want to go back home… but I still had a nagging feeling that I was somehow putting off my ‘real life,’ simply delaying the inevitable and that every year I spent here would ultimately be a year wasted.

Now I’m still here, almost seven years later, and I have no regrets. [Read more…] about How Long Should I Stay in Korea?

Merry Christmas from the Seoul Players’ Union!

December 25, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Hey players, I hope you’re all having a great Christmas today!

I’m currently writing this from another country where I can’t find reliable wifi, so it’s been difficult for me to post recently. But worry not players, The Head Player himself will be back in Korea shortly!

As we come up to a new year, it’s important to reflect on this year’s successes as well as what the coming year holds for us. [Read more…] about Merry Christmas from the Seoul Players’ Union!

How to Convert Numbers into Dates

November 24, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

This last weekend I was having a chat with a new member of the Players Union and he hit me with a situation that I didn’t have an answer for off the top of my head.

He told me that he has no problem approaching Korean girls and getting their numbers or even getting dates and kisses from them, but he was having trouble converting these into reliable dates and sex.  So the question came up: How can I improve my conversion rate?

In other words, how can I take these girls I meet and actually get dates and sex from it? [Read more…] about How to Convert Numbers into Dates

Why Should She Be Interested in You?

September 15, 2015 by Jack North 1 Comment

We’ve all had the experience of being out and seeing an average looking guy with a great looking girl.  This is even more common in Korea, where it’s generally easier to shoot above your number than in the western world.  She’s falling all over him, they’re laughing and having a good time, and it seems like he’s able to effortlessly keep the conversation going forever.  Guys look on in awe and then try to copy openers, lines and routines from things they read online, confused when it doesn’t work like what they see. [Read more…] about Why Should She Be Interested in You?

Never Let Her Cancel on You Twice

July 31, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

As I’ve mentioned before, a big problem in Korea is girls who flake on you.  You might have plans set in stone with her for Friday night, then when the time comes, she’ll either send you a cursory text message a few minutes before you’re supposed to meet or she sometimes just won’t show up at all without even calling.

You must have a one strike policy with girls like this. [Read more…] about Never Let Her Cancel on You Twice

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