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How to Invite a Girl Home

November 13, 2021 by Jack North Leave a Comment

In this episode of Jack’n the Kidd Jack explains how to properly invite a girl over to your place. The do’s and the don’ts of asking girls over to your place and what things you need to have in your home ready to go if you invite the girl over.

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How to Take Your Date Home

November 4, 2021 by Jack North Leave a Comment

In this episode of Jack’n the Kidd Jack explains how when you are out on a date with a girl how to ask her to come back home with you. Jack goes over the helpful mental models guys should use when asking women to come home with them, and why it’s expected of you as the man to initiate and ask otherwise you will keep going home alone.

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The Weirdest First Date

October 11, 2016 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Today I’m going to try something new on request from several readers.  Instead of just giving advice or explaining situations, I’m telling an actual story of something that happened during my time dating around here in Korea.  If I get a favorable response from these, I’ll continue telling my other stories as well.  Some will be of success, some will be of failure, and some will just be of the notably weird, but all will be true and show a part of the dating life as a foreigner in Korea.

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Anyone who dates around a lot is bound to have some pretty weird first date stories, and I am no stranger to bad first dates.  This particular girl however even surprised me with how incredibly weird and awkward she made our first date.

This story happened back in May, when I was not drinking for a month as an experiment to see if I could still get laid completely sober.  I had hooked up with an airline stewardess who lived nearby on a Tuesday night and the next morning we took my dog, Simba, out for a walk and she was heading home.  A few minutes after parting ways with the stewardess, I saw a cute girl also walking a dog.

Simba, being much like me, ran up to the other one and started trying to hump it immediately.  The girl and I both laughed and started talking.  After about a 15 minute chat, she asked for my number (a huge signal of interest) and we parted ways, agreeing to meet up on Friday for a date.

She immediately began messaging me regularly with great enthusiasm, always a good sign.  We banter back and forth for a couple of days and she seems genuinely excited about the date.

Now before I get to the date, let me tell you a little about the girl.  She’s 22, very cute but not sexy, exactly the style I normally go for.  Probably a 6-8 on most guys’ scales, depending on how much you like the cute factor.  She speaks minimal to no English, so we’re communicating entirely in Korean.  Because of these factors, I can immediately rule her out as being a Foreigner Lover.  She tells me that she doesn’t drink at all, so she’s not an Attention Whore or an Alcoholic, and she just recently broke up with her first and only boyfriend so she’s likely not a Slut.  I narrow down that she’s probably a mix between a Prude and a Friend. [Read more…] about The Weirdest First Date

How to Date an Average Korean Girl as an Average Guy

September 13, 2015 by Jack North 4 Comments

Hey players, this is a guest post from Julius out in the field.  Enjoy!  You can send any thoughts, comments or guest post ideas to [email protected].

Going to Korea for the first time can be extremely overwhelming. For many, it’s the first time away from home and a familiar environment. Not only are you experiencing culture shock with the mannerisms of the people, you also don’t know the language and how to communicate with others… especially with Korean women. You suddenly find yourself not being able to communicate effectively at all, resorting to clumsily pointing and gesturing in the hopes of getting what you want to eat. If ordering food is one of the most challenging things at first, how on earth would you ask out a Korean woman, let alone date one? Luckily, most Korean women our age are interested in meeting a foreigner, regardless of race or country of origin. So it’s not that hard. Here’s how. [Read more…] about How to Date an Average Korean Girl as an Average Guy

5 Reasons to Delete your Facebook in Korea

September 11, 2015 by Jack North 2 Comments

delete facebookFacebook has become the largest global phenomenon of our generation.  It allows you to connect with friends from anywhere in the globe and share your life.  It allows you to keep in touch with people near and far as well as see what is happening in their lives.

It is also a complete waste of time and ruins your game with women.

The following are five good reasons for any man living in Korea to delete his Facebook.

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