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Dealing With the Language Barrier

August 12, 2015 by Jack North 5 Comments

Picking up girls in another country is never easy, and it’s a good bit more difficult when the natives don’t have extensive knowledge of English.  Places like Europe and touristy destinations around the world will have a ton of locals who speak English with at least decent proficiency, but East Asia generally does not.  On top of that, if you go to places like Central and South America, Spanish is relatively easy to pick up to a conversational point.  Korean is not.

Korean is definitely one of the most difficult languages in the world to learn, which is why many expats have been here for years upon years without learning more than survival phrases.  I, for one, refuse to be that guy.  I took it upon myself after arriving here to develop a strong proficiency with the language, and I’m now at a point where I’m functionally fluent but not native.  This is entirely unimportant though in terms of picking up women.

A lot of guys here think that the language barrier will stop them from being able to pick up women, but that’s absolutely untrue.  [Read more…] about Dealing With the Language Barrier

Reflections on Weekend in Daejeon

August 11, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Last weekend I took the second in my series of trips around Korea to gather more information to share with you.  The first weekend, I was in Seoul, and it is probably a trip I will do again later once I’ve honed my information gathering strategy a bit more.  In my reflections from that weekend, I noted that simply trying to get laid in a different city didn’t really provide me with new information about that city, but was just a representation of who was out on that particular night.  That weekend in Seoul wasn’t a great night because of weather and timing, as it was the national vacation week in Korea so there weren’t many people out. [Read more…] about Reflections on Weekend in Daejeon

Logistics are King

August 3, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Of all the different aspects involved in getting a girl from the point of being interested to the point of penetration, the most important is logistics, hands down.  In this case, logistics means the distance from the bar or club where you meet a girl to your home and the way to get there.  Seoul is a huge city with literally hundreds of thousands of places to drink, but if you want an area with western style bars or clubs, there are only a few sections of the city to go.

It doesn’t matter if it’s your first time ever talking to a girl or a seasoned veteran with a 4-digit notch count, if your logistics aren’t good, you’re shooting yourself in the foot. [Read more…] about Logistics are King

Never Let Her Cancel on You Twice

July 31, 2015 by Jack North Leave a Comment

As I’ve mentioned before, a big problem in Korea is girls who flake on you.  You might have plans set in stone with her for Friday night, then when the time comes, she’ll either send you a cursory text message a few minutes before you’re supposed to meet or she sometimes just won’t show up at all without even calling.

You must have a one strike policy with girls like this. [Read more…] about Never Let Her Cancel on You Twice

The 3-Day Rule

July 27, 2015 by Jack North 7 Comments

I’ve heard, as I’m sure you all have, the mysterious rule about not calling a girl for 3 days after getting her number.  This is supposed to show that you’re not needy and let her think about how much she likes you and wants to see you again.  It was also a rule that was clearly devised before the age of smartphones, OKCupid, and Tinder.  I have a different 3-Day rule that I always try to apply, and it’s shown itself to be much more effective than the prehistoric version of not calling / messaging them.

From the time you get her number, you have 3 days to set up the first date. [Read more…] about The 3-Day Rule

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