The Seoul Player

And the Korean Women who Love Him

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How to Convert Numbers into Dates

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This last weekend I was having a chat with a new member of the Players Union and he hit me with a situation that I didn’t have an answer for off the top of my head.

He told me that he has no problem approaching Korean girls and getting their numbers or even getting dates and kisses from them, but he was having trouble converting these into reliable dates and sex.  So the question came up: How can I improve my conversion rate?

In other words, how can I take these girls I meet and actually get dates and sex from it? [Read more…] about How to Convert Numbers into Dates

Types of Korean Girls – The Slut

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QUICK STATS

LOOKS: 5 – 9

ONS: 50% – 100%

LTR: Low desirability

Who is The Slut?

The Slut is well-versed in the art of seduction and sex.  She has done the dance many times before and has years of experience behind her.  Because of this, the Slut is usually a bit older than the other girls on the list.  She is usually around 25 to 35 years old and already has established hunting grounds.  The Slut usually looks younger than her age because she has finely honed and perfected the science of makeup, pushup bras, and form-fitting clothes.  She also probably spends a lot of time at the gym in order to stay on the easy sex express for as long as possible. [Read more…] about Types of Korean Girls – The Slut

The Importance of Momentum

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About a week ago, I went out to Hongdae with a couple of my guy friends from my neighborhood.  These particular friends of mine aren’t very interested or good at talking to women, so it was mostly a day of us hanging out as guys and having a couple of beers.  By the time we got to Hongdae, it was about 11pm.  Perfect, I thought.  I walked into the first bar, and I couldn’t have been more turned off.  Everything just seemed very banal and uninteresting.  None of the girls were grabbing my attention.  I tried to talk to a couple of them only to be completely blown out, and I just shrugged it off and left.  My buddy was laughing at me for acting old and grumpy, and I was getting the results to show for that attitude.

A little while later, we met up with my buddy’s girlfriend and her two friends.  I immediately started talking with the friends, but now instead of a busy bar or club, I was in a low-key outdoor setting.  I was just meeting new people and having a basic chat, and all the sudden it was back on.  From that point on, my presence, style, and game only improved until I wound up one-nighting with a flight attendant.

What was the difference between the first half of the night and the second?

Momentum. [Read more…] about The Importance of Momentum

Never Stop Spinning Plates

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Recently while talking to my friend Stallion, I asked him about one of his girls that I had met a couple of weeks before.  He looked confused for a minute, then said, “Oh her?  Yeah we’re finished.”  Then we both laughed a bit, clinked our beers, and started talking about her new replacement in his rotation.

This got me thinking about my other friend Shooter and what was different about these two.  Both are young and good with women.  Both have solid game and a decent understanding of the female mind, but they had completely different reactions when things ended with a girl.  I realized that it was because while Shooter had more than one girl going at a time, he let them stagnate and he made the mistake of getting too attached.  Stallion had the right idea.

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Don’t Tinder Korea

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Tinder is the biggest possible waste of your time and energy if you’re looking to meet Korean girls.

It’s a microcosm of shitty American culture coming to Korea and being made even worse.  Every interaction begins with you providing the girl with instant validation of her looks, which in and of itself is not a good beginning.  Then 99% of the time, you have to send messages first and show direct interest, further weakening your hand.  If she even bothers responding to your dancing bear intro or terrible pun, you’re in a situation where you almost have to play into her hand just to get her to meet face to face.  It’s a lazy and weak way of trying to meet girls in general, and it especially doesn’t work in Korea.
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