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The Seoul Player – New and Improved with Boot Camps!

September 14, 2019 by Jack North Leave a Comment

So you wanna become a player?

You’re in the right place!

If you’re here, then chances are good that you’re looking to improve your success with women.

Perhaps you have problems with approaching attractive women you see or when you meet them you don’t know what to say?

You want to get the number of a pretty girl you just met?

Maybe you are able to take women on dates, but then you don’t know how to make the move to get them back home?

Or maybe you already have decent success but want to improve?

Your fantasy can now become reality!

After years of coaching fellow aspirants like yourself, the time has finally come for me to open up my services to the public.

I am happy to announce that I am now taking on select clients for one-on-one coaching as well as small group coaching in the form of weekend-long boot camps.

These boot camps will be held only one weekend a month with:

3 days of training and practice

Over 10 hours of targeted instruction

Over 15 hours of in-field practice and training

… and Korea-specific information to maximize your success with the most beautiful Korean women! [Read more…] about The Seoul Player – New and Improved with Boot Camps!

Types of Korean Girls – The Shy Girl

September 14, 2018 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Shy Korean Girl

QUICK STATS

LOOKS: 4-8

ONS: 10%-35%

LTR: Medium to High desirability

Who is The Shy Girl?

The Shy Girl can be a fun girl to meet if you play your game right.  While Shy Girls have a high correlation to prudishness, they aren’t necessarily true prudes.  They are definitely shy in public, it doesn’t mean that they will be shy behind closed doors or that they aren’t interested in talking when you meet them.

Shy girls, like a lot of shy guys, want to have good conversations and positive experiences but often don’t know how to make them happen.  This is part of your job as a player, helping her to get out of her shell a little bit and experience things in a different way than she could by herself.

One mistake that a lot of extroverts make (most players are extroverts whether naturally or by necessity) is that they assume if a Shy Girl is quiet that it means she isn’t having fun.  This is a false assumption and often leads to an otherwise strong interaction being cut short unnecessarily. This makes your ramble routine especially important when dealing with a Shy Girl. [Read more…] about Types of Korean Girls – The Shy Girl

Types of Korean Girls – The Worker Bee

August 14, 2018 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Korea's Female Worker Bee

QUICK STATS

LOOKS: 4-6+

ONS: 25% – 50%

LTR: Medium desirability

Who Is The Worker Bee?

The Worker Bee’s most notable feature, as her name suggests, is that she is focused almost single-mindedly on her work and career.  She drank the Kool-Aid and honestly believes that having a career of super long work days and no weekends off is the key to success and happiness.

Because of this, there’s a very good chance that if you meet or even date a Worker Bee, you likely won’t ever know very much about her or her personality.  Much of her sense of self-worth comes from her job, so she most likely works in some sort of high status position such as for Samsung or LG. Any personality outside of working, having dinner with coworkers, and complaining about work will be minimal to nonexistent.

Because of this heavy investment in her studies and career, the Worker Bee’s looks are very rarely optimal.  They tend to dress and groom themselves in a more practical manner than one that emphasizes beauty. Most Worker Bees tend to have shorter hair as it’s easy to maintain, and they rarely wear heels if they can get away with it.  You’ll have to break her of the habit of wearing teacher dresses and mom jeans if you want to be proud when you take her in public. A trip to the local department store for a makeover will do wonders for her looks and make her feel much prettier around you. A lot of them will appear somewhat frumpy at first but may be hiding a gem beneath. Compliment her appearance when she tries hard, but discourage her bad fashion and makeup decisions. [Read more…] about Types of Korean Girls – The Worker Bee

Can I Have Your InstaFaceTweetPlus?

October 5, 2016 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Instragram SucksI got an interesting email from a reader earlier this week.  He asked about a specific situation that I’ve noticed happening recently, but at the same time, it seems to have always happened in one form or another.

The reader writes:

“I just broke up with my ex last week and this was the first time that I approached women in Seoul.  I was at an outdoor concert with some coworkers and saw a cute girl sitting not far from us. There were 3 girls and one guy (coworker with one and not dating any of them) in the group. I ended up chatting with them for about 10-15 minutes. Everything seemed to be going well, and as I was finishing the conversation, I mentioned that I didn’t know very many people in Seoul and it would be great to hang out with them. To be honest I don’t remember exactly what they said or what I said, but the girl closest to me asked me if I was on Instagram. I said that I wasn’t but that I do have Kakao and offered to exchange IDs. At that point, the guy said that I should start using Instagram so that I could “meet fancy ladies.” That created a rather awkward moment, and at that point, I asked the girl again about Kakao. There wasn’t much of a response and I didn’t want to linger, so I politely excused myself and went back to my friends empty-handed. To be honest, I thought asking for my Instagram was a bit of a polite way to say Fuck off, so I didn’t try too hard after that.

All of my friends that I was with are foreigners most of whom are either married to other foreigners or just moved here a few weeks ago as well. When I went back and told my friends, one said that asking for my Instagram was a good thing and meant she was interested. This was very confusing for me.  So the question is, should her asking about Instagram be perceived as a good signal or a polite way to reject? Is not having, nor wanting to have an Instagram account, possibly going to be problematic in the future?”

Okay players, let’s unpack this! [Read more…] about Can I Have Your InstaFaceTweetPlus?

How to Spot and Avoid Flakes

June 7, 2016 by Jack North Leave a Comment

How to avoid flakesSo you finally stepped up to the plate.

You stopped that beautiful girl on the train and got her number using The Seoul Player’s patented number grabbing technique.

Now you’re following the plan to text her and set up a date.

Everything is all ready, you get dressed and start heading to meet her for drinks at the local pub near your home so your logistics are tight.

All the sudden your phone buzzes.  You look down and see that it’s her.  You get a sinking feeling in your gut because you know what’s coming next.

“Hey, I’m sorry but…” [Read more…] about How to Spot and Avoid Flakes

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