The Seoul Player

And the Korean Women who Love Him

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Logistics are King

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Of all the different aspects involved in getting a girl from the point of being interested to the point of penetration, the most important is logistics, hands down.  In this case, logistics means the distance from the bar or club where you meet a girl to your home and the way to get there.  Seoul is a huge city with literally hundreds of thousands of places to drink, but if you want an area with western style bars or clubs, there are only a few sections of the city to go.

It doesn’t matter if it’s your first time ever talking to a girl or a seasoned veteran with a 4-digit notch count, if your logistics aren’t good, you’re shooting yourself in the foot. [Read more…] about Logistics are King

Never Let Her Cancel on You Twice

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As I’ve mentioned before, a big problem in Korea is girls who flake on you.  You might have plans set in stone with her for Friday night, then when the time comes, she’ll either send you a cursory text message a few minutes before you’re supposed to meet or she sometimes just won’t show up at all without even calling.

You must have a one strike policy with girls like this. [Read more…] about Never Let Her Cancel on You Twice

Never Be a Beta Orbiter

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If you’re still on it, go to your Facebook or Instagram feed.  Look at the profiles of 2 or 3 attractive girls you know.  Look at the mind-boggling amount of activity on their pictures in terms of likes and comments.  If yours is one of them, you are never ever going to nail her.

These girls know exactly what they’re doing, and with every picture they post, they get more and more likes and followers.  It’s attention whoring, pure and simple.  If you contribute to that, then I guarantee, she’s never going to give you the time of day. [Read more…] about Never Be a Beta Orbiter

The 3-Day Rule

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I’ve heard, as I’m sure you all have, the mysterious rule about not calling a girl for 3 days after getting her number.  This is supposed to show that you’re not needy and let her think about how much she likes you and wants to see you again.  It was also a rule that was clearly devised before the age of smartphones, OKCupid, and Tinder.  I have a different 3-Day rule that I always try to apply, and it’s shown itself to be much more effective than the prehistoric version of not calling / messaging them.

From the time you get her number, you have 3 days to set up the first date. [Read more…] about The 3-Day Rule

Ditch Her

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After a long weekend of approaches and getting numbers, you start sending out the Monday messages and try to organize your dates for the week.  You get a few bites and set up the details.  Then you show up to meet the girl, and something isn’t working for you.  Maybe she was hotter after a few beers on Saturday night.  Maybe her voice sounds like fingernails on a chalk board.  Maybe you just aren’t that interested and you’d rather be playing pool with your buddy instead.

Just let her know the date is over and leave.  Ditch her. [Read more…] about Ditch Her