Ditch Her

After a long weekend of approaches and getting numbers, you start sending out the Monday messages and try to organize your dates for the week.  You get a few bites and set up the details.  Then you show up to meet the girl, and something isn’t working for you.  Maybe she was hotter after a few beers on Saturday night.  Maybe her voice sounds like fingernails on a chalk board.  Maybe you just aren’t that interested and you’d rather be playing pool with your buddy instead.

Just let her know the date is over and leave.  Ditch her.

Don’t waste your time with a girl that you know you’re not interested in.  Your time is your most valuable resource, not to mention that you’ll probably save money on food, drinks, or a taxi home if it’s a late night date.  Save your resources for the girls you actually want to spend time with.

A lot of Korean girls can be completely insufferable.  The only way to avoid dealing with these girls is to remove yourself from the equation.  These girls aren’t even worth a cursory bang either.  It’s quite difficult to get excited at the prospect of hooking up with a girl who’s about as interesting as a box of fake nails.  I’ve walked out on several Tinder dates, but let’s be honest, Tinder girls in Korea are already bottom of the barrel so that’s really no surprise.

As an added bonus, it will probably be the first time a guy has ever done anything like this to her.  It’s a bossy move, and it will make her wonder what’s going on.  There’s a good chance that she’ll even start sending messages again and ask for another chance to meet you, so even if you change your mind or just get really horny later, you have the option to backtrack and get the notch anyway.

Own your time and resources.  Don’t put up with bullshit.  Don’t be afraid to walk away from girls that aren’t worth your time.