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The Seoul Player – New and Improved with Boot Camps!

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So you wanna become a player?

You’re in the right place!

If you’re here, then chances are good that you’re looking to improve your success with women.

Perhaps you have problems with approaching attractive women you see or when you meet them you don’t know what to say?

You want to get the number of a pretty girl you just met?

Maybe you are able to take women on dates, but then you don’t know how to make the move to get them back home?

Or maybe you already have decent success but want to improve?

Your fantasy can now become reality!

After years of coaching fellow aspirants like yourself, the time has finally come for me to open up my services to the public.

I am happy to announce that I am now taking on select clients for one-on-one coaching as well as small group coaching in the form of weekend-long boot camps.

These boot camps will be held only one weekend a month with:

3 days of training and practice

Over 10 hours of targeted instruction

Over 15 hours of in-field practice and training

… and Korea-specific information to maximize your success with the most beautiful Korean women! [Read more…] about The Seoul Player – New and Improved with Boot Camps!

Types of Korean Girls – The Worker Bee

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Korea's Female Worker Bee

QUICK STATS

LOOKS: 4-6+

ONS: 20% – 35%

LTR: Low to Medium desirability

Who Is The Worker Bee?

The Worker Bee’s most notable feature, as her name suggests, is that she is focused almost single-mindedly on her work and career.  She drank the Kool-Aid and honestly believes that having a career of super long work days and no weekends off is the key to success and happiness.

Because of this, there’s a very good chance that if you meet or even date a Worker Bee, you likely won’t ever know very much about her or her personality.  Much of her sense of self-worth comes from her job, so she most likely works in some sort of high status position such as for Samsung or LG. Any personality outside of working, having dinner with coworkers, and complaining about work will be minimal to nonexistent.

Because of this heavy investment in her studies and career, the Worker Bee’s looks are very rarely optimal.  They tend to dress and groom themselves in a more practical manner than one that emphasizes beauty. Most Worker Bees tend to have shorter hair as it’s easy to maintain, and they rarely wear heels if they can get away with it.  You’ll have to break her of the habit of wearing teacher dresses and mom jeans if you want to be proud when you take her in public. A trip to the local department store for a makeover will do wonders for her looks and make her feel much prettier around you. A lot of them will appear somewhat frumpy at first but may be hiding a gem beneath. Compliment her appearance when she tries hard, but discourage her bad fashion and makeup decisions. [Read more…] about Types of Korean Girls – The Worker Bee

Can I Have Your InstaFaceTweetPlus?

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Instragram SucksI got an interesting email from a reader earlier this week.  He asked about a specific situation that I’ve noticed happening recently, but at the same time, it seems to have always happened in one form or another.

The reader writes:

“I just broke up with my ex last week and this was the first time that I approached women in Seoul.  I was at an outdoor concert with some coworkers and saw a cute girl sitting not far from us. There were 3 girls and one guy (coworker with one and not dating any of them) in the group. I ended up chatting with them for about 10-15 minutes. Everything seemed to be going well, and as I was finishing the conversation, I mentioned that I didn’t know very many people in Seoul and it would be great to hang out with them. To be honest I don’t remember exactly what they said or what I said, but the girl closest to me asked me if I was on Instagram. I said that I wasn’t but that I do have Kakao and offered to exchange IDs. At that point, the guy said that I should start using Instagram so that I could “meet fancy ladies.” That created a rather awkward moment, and at that point, I asked the girl again about Kakao. There wasn’t much of a response and I didn’t want to linger, so I politely excused myself and went back to my friends empty-handed. To be honest, I thought asking for my Instagram was a bit of a polite way to say Fuck off, so I didn’t try too hard after that.

All of my friends that I was with are foreigners most of whom are either married to other foreigners or just moved here a few weeks ago as well. When I went back and told my friends, one said that asking for my Instagram was a good thing and meant she was interested. This was very confusing for me.  So the question is, should her asking about Instagram be perceived as a good signal or a polite way to reject? Is not having, nor wanting to have an Instagram account, possibly going to be problematic in the future?”

Okay players, let’s unpack this! [Read more…] about Can I Have Your InstaFaceTweetPlus?

The Two Best Ways to Approach Women

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approachWhen it comes to going out to meet new women, there are two general schools of thought among successful players – the Shotgun approach and the Sniper approach.

Just like the names imply, Shotgun game is more of a scattershot approach where you just cast a wide net and see who is receptive whereas Sniper game is a much more targeted approach where you look for exactly the type of girl who will be interested in taking things further with you.

Both methods have distinct advantages and benefits over the other, and they also have a lot to do with a player’s particular style. The consummate player though needs to be able to use either approach for meeting women and know exactly when, where, and how to apply them well. [Read more…] about The Two Best Ways to Approach Women

How to Improve Your Conversations with Women

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What’s the ultimate fantasy goal of most men when they start learning about game and pickup?

Let’s be honest with ourselves here.

Most men want to be able to walk up to a hot girl and just say, “Hey I think you’re hot. My place or yours?” and then she comes with you for some great no strings attached sex. Maybe as a cherry on top she poses with you for a picture in your bed that you can show off to your friends later and brag.

Sounds awesome, right? [Read more…] about How to Improve Your Conversations with Women