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How to Forget Your Mistakes and Become Better

February 28, 2022 by Jack North Leave a Comment

“You know what the happiest animal in the world is? A goldfish.

Know why? It’s got a 10 second memory.

Be a goldfish, Sam.”

Apart from being a great scene from one of the best shows ever written, this line from Ted Lasso can teach us all something very important.

It teaches us that, in order to be happy, successful, and continue to improve, we need to let go of our past mistakes and move on.

The bigger question though is exactly how one can do that.

“How can I forget about that stupid thing I said / did? She stopped talking to me after that!”

This is something I’ve heard a thousand times from different guys I’ve coached over the years, and I continue hearing it to this day. And I’ll admit to you right now, it is not an easy thing to do. It’s certainly not a natural thing to do either. It’s hardwired into us as humans.

That said, it is possible. And beyond that, it is necessary if you want to be successful with women, business, life in general… or “football.”

Let me tell you that I’ve made mistakes. A LOT of mistakes. So many, in fact, that I don’t even know how many. The weird thing though is that unless I really think hard about a particular interaction or relationship I had, I don’t actually remember any of them. None stick in my consciousness, and they don’t hold me back from going into similar situations… Though they do help to inform me of how to act in similar situations.

How am I able to make thousands of mistakes, ranging from fumbling my words to almost getting stabbed by a girl?

Well, here are three simple strategies to getting over your past mistakes and moving on to become better.

Game in a Nutshell – The Conversation, aka Making the Sale

September 10, 2020 by Jack North 2 Comments

What’s going on players?

A while back, I wrote the first part in the Game in a Nutshell series where I taught you all about how to approach girls. I went through it step by step and gave multiple different openers you can use and detailed exactly how to use them with examples.

Now that you’ve actually approached her though… What comes next?

Today we’re going to go through the conversation that you should have with a woman once you’ve approached her, and I’m going to break down every single part of it for you!

Some good news for you older (or more culturally literate) fellows out there – you already know the steps to follow! As Alec Baldwin famously taught us in Glengarry Glen Ross, you need to follow AIDA: Attention, Interest, Decision, Action.

Going through them step by step, I’m going to detail exactly how you can 1) Get Her Attention, 2) Generate Interest, 3) Bring Her to Decision, and 5) Get Her to Act.

NOTE: Throughout this guide, I give rough time estimates of how long things should take. These are not exact, but instead are a rough guide for an ‘average’ interaction. These assume that the approach is happening on the street. If you’re in a bar or other venue where you can chat longer, things will go a bit longer. Experiment with using more or less of the different steps to find what works best for your style in different venues and locations.

Step 1 – Get Her Attention (The Opener)

The Tinder Killer

May 13, 2020 by Jack North 7 Comments

By this point, I assume that everyone here knows how I feel about Tinder. It’s a garbage heap and not worth your time, even compared to other online dating apps. You’ll get better quality results on something like OKCupid or Match. But if you want the real results with Korean women in an app that’s actually worth your time and effort?

Gotta use Meeff.

I know, the name is stupid. It’s so dumb that when my friend first told me about it, I almost didn’t use it because of the name alone. Don’t make that mistake though, this app is the best place to meet good Korean women.

Well, that’s not entirely true… Approaching in real life still gives better results and quality over the long term. But you can’t do that while you’re taking a dump, now can you?

Meeff in, in function, the same as Tinder. You see someone’s profile and swipe left or right. If you match, then it opens a chat room that you can use to talk to them.

What makes Meeff different from Tinder or OKC isn’t that it has the hottest girls or that they’re instantly down to bang. The real reason that Meeff is superior is because of the type of girl that this app attracts. [Read more…] about The Tinder Killer

Be, Do, Have

March 5, 2020 by Jack North Leave a Comment

What’s going on players? Hope you’re all enjoying the Coronapocalypse and staying in! It’s a good time to read some books and work on improving our minds.

Yesterday I was reading a Robert Kiyosaki book and he mentioned something that caught my interest. He said that he had attended a seminar on goal setting years ago, and the instructor had taught them the phrase, “Be, Do, Have.” In the book, he touches on the concept briefly so I’m going to go a bit deeper with it here and explain how it relates to you and game.

He said that everybody wants to have something. In order to have that thing, they want to know what to do. However, most people don’t understand that in order to do that thing successfully, one must be the type of person who will do that thing.

He gives an example of someone wanting to lose weight – what they want to have. They know they need to diet and exercise – what they have to do. But because do not accept the personality and mindset shift required – the be element – they ultimately go back to their bad habits and fail at their weight loss goals.

This was a bit of a side note to make a larger point more in scope to that book, but it struck me as especially meaningful. This concept is a huge part of getting better with women and improving yourself overall. I’ve actually been teaching this concept for years, but I never had such a succinct way of explaining it before.

Be, Do, Have – The Player’s Edition

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The Seoul Player – New and Improved with Boot Camps!

September 14, 2019 by Jack North Leave a Comment

So you wanna become a player?

You’re in the right place!

If you’re here, then chances are good that you’re looking to improve your success with women.

Perhaps you have problems with approaching attractive women you see or when you meet them you don’t know what to say?

You want to get the number of a pretty girl you just met?

Maybe you are able to take women on dates, but then you don’t know how to make the move to get them back home?

Or maybe you already have decent success but want to improve?

Your fantasy can now become reality!

After years of coaching fellow aspirants like yourself, the time has finally come for me to open up my services to the public.

I am happy to announce that I am now taking on select clients for one-on-one coaching as well as small group coaching in the form of weekend-long boot camps.

These boot camps will be held only one weekend a month with:

3 days of training and practice

Over 10 hours of targeted instruction

Over 15 hours of in-field practice and training

… and Korea-specific information to maximize your success with the most beautiful Korean women! [Read more…] about The Seoul Player – New and Improved with Boot Camps!