The Seoul Player

And the Korean Women who Love Him

How to Convert Numbers into Dates

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This last weekend I was having a chat with a new member of the Players Union and he hit me with a situation that I didn’t have an answer for off the top of my head.

He told me that he has no problem approaching Korean girls and getting their numbers or even getting dates and kisses from them, but he was having trouble converting these into reliable dates and sex.  So the question came up: How can I improve my conversion rate?

In other words, how can I take these girls I meet and actually get dates and sex from it? [Read more…] about How to Convert Numbers into Dates

Can I Meet Women in My Own Country?

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Hey there players!  This post comes from J.D. over at The Social Lifestyle.  Go check out his other writings too, the guy has a lot of great stuff to say.  He’s provided a much needed native Asian view for us today, explaining the mindset needed to meet and pick up girls in your own home country.  This article should help our Korean readers become more confident with talking to and meeting women here at home.

Something that comes up time and time again from guys who first learn about cold approach pick up is that they think “it only works in the Western context.” It’s as though somehow they are a different species of humans and have totally different socio-behavioral cues.

Sure, if you’re comparing Saudi Arabia to USA, for example, there are laws or sanctions against publicly interacting with members of the opposite sex, then it may make sense to say that.

But if you’re living in a Westernized, progressive society, saying that women in your country can’t be approached is definitely ridiculous—especially if you haven’t tried it yourself. [Read more…] about Can I Meet Women in My Own Country?

Types of Korean Girls: The Gold Digger / The Materialist

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QUICK STATS

LOOKS: 4-8 (before surgery), 6-9 (after surgery)

ONS: 10% – 25%, 50% – 90% if you flash cash

LTR: Medium desirability

Who are The Gold Digger and The Materialist?

The Gold Digger and The Materialist are different girls, but only because of their natural stations in life.  They essentially have the same style and interest, which is money, but the difference is whether or not they already have money.

The Gold Digger is exactly what you think of when you hear the Kanye West song.  She’s a girl without much in the way of personal means, and she hopes to access more money and status by way of getting them from you.  She will often try to affect the personality traits of The Prude in order to give herself a veneer of desirability, but it will be plainly obvious to any aware man that it’s an act.  Failing this, she will try to withhold sex unless a significant amount of money is spent on her, whether through gifts, meals, fancy bottles of wine, or other such frivolities. [Read more…] about Types of Korean Girls: The Gold Digger / The Materialist

How to Meet Korean Women on the Subway in 5 Easy Steps

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Last week I wrote an article about meeting Korean women on the subway.  There are plenty of reasons to use the subway to your advantage, but the most basic question still remains.  How do I do that?  How do I approach a girl I don’t know on the subway?

Luckily for you, I have done this many times and found out what works and what doesn’t work for subway approaches.  So players, grab a cup of coffee and get ready for some truth bombs. [Read more…] about How to Meet Korean Women on the Subway in 5 Easy Steps

The Best Place in Korea to Meet Lots of Women

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For all the talk about day game that you can read online, most of the ideas and advice are the same.  Go to a coffee shop.  Stop a girl on the street.  Go to a cultural event.  While these aren’t bad ideas and have garnered some amount of success for me, I’ve found that my highest success ratio has been in the place people least talk about for day game: the subway.  Here are four great reasons that the subway is the best place in Korea to meet women and improve your game. [Read more…] about The Best Place in Korea to Meet Lots of Women