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Game in a Nutshell – The Conversation, aka Making the Sale

September 10, 2020 by Jack North 1 Comment

What’s going on players?

A while back, I wrote the first part in the Game in a Nutshell series where I taught you all about how to approach girls. I went through it step by step and gave multiple different openers you can use and detailed exactly how to use them with examples.

Now that you’ve actually approached her though… What comes next?

Today we’re going to go through the conversation that you should have with a woman once you’ve approached her, and I’m going to break down every single part of it for you!

Some good news for you older (or more culturally literate) fellows out there – you already know the steps to follow! As Alec Baldwin famously taught us in Glengarry Glen Ross, you need to follow AIDA: Attention, Interest, Decision, Action.

Going through them step by step, I’m going to detail exactly how you can 1) Get Her Attention, 2) Generate Interest, 3) Bring Her to Decision, and 5) Get Her to Act.

NOTE: Throughout this guide, I give rough time estimates of how long things should take. These are not exact, but instead are a rough guide for an ‘average’ interaction. These assume that the approach is happening on the street. If you’re in a bar or other venue where you can chat longer, things will go a bit longer. Experiment with using more or less of the different steps to find what works best for your style in different venues and locations.

Step 1 – Get Her Attention (The Opener)

Congruent Game – Make It Without Faking It!

April 28, 2020 by Jack North 2 Comments

The most common question I get from guys via email or on the forum is always the same. I’m sure I don’t even have to tell you because you’re probably thinking it right now, and that’s why you found this site.

The most common question that all guys ask me is…

“Damn Jack, how are you so awesome?”

Great question, dear readers, but I think you’ll be more interested in the second most common question!

“What should I say to get a girl to like me?”

Well, the answer to that isn’t quite as simple as the question itself. The reason is that the answer is different for everyone.

The Playcast Episode 2 – Successful October

November 9, 2019 by Jack North Leave a Comment

How’s it going players and padawans? Papa Jack back at it again, talking today with Cardz from the forum about his immensely successful October!

This was a big month for us both, as Cardz hit a hot streak and I hosted my first bootcamp. By all accounts and the success of those in attendance, I’d say it was a resounding success!

Hear what Cardz did this month, what kind of cool information you can find on the forum, and a lot of other stuff in our newest episode of The Playcast!

The Only Way to Get Laid

July 22, 2015 by Jack North 4 Comments

While every man would like to be able to go out and get laid on demand, the unfortunate reality is that it’s just not possible, even for those who have been practicing and refining their game for years. This is especially true in Korea where most girls are much more resistant to same night lays than their western counterparts. In addition to that, there will be plenty of girls who are just not into you. In order to find one girl that you actually like who wants to sleep with you on that one given night, how many approaches do you think you would need to do? Unless you are exceptionally good looking, wealthy, or somehow famous I’m guess that number would be at least 20, and that’s if your game with Koreans is super tight. If you’re new to game or to Korea, that number goes up substantially. [Read more…] about The Only Way to Get Laid