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Picking Up Asian Women – Korea vs. Japan Edition (Ft. Social Sinapse)

December 12, 2016 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Podcast

This last week I got an email from my good friend Sinapse over at Attraction Japan asking to do a podcast together and talk about the similarities and differences between pickup in Japan and Korea.

Read More: Attracting and Picking up Women in Japan

We sat down together and talked for a little more than an hour about all sorts of things from meeting women on the street to our daily lives and how important the language barrier is in each country.

Some other topics we touched on include:

-Our expectations vs. the reality of picking up girls in Japan and Korea

-Our own beginnings with game, what brought us to it, and how we began learning it

-What our bread and butter game is like

-What mistakes guys often make when they first arrive in East Asia

We had a great time talking about all this stuff, and I think there’s a lot of stuff in there for readers from Korea, Japan, or anywhere in the world.  One universal truth about game is that game is universal everywhere – just with different styles and variations.

You can listen to the podcast below on the page or find the soundcloud here.

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What do you guys think?  Would you like to hear more podcasts?  If so, what kind of topics would you like to hear covered?  Let me know in the comments below!

Til next time players!

-JN

The Importance of Momentum

September 4, 2015 by Jack North 1 Comment

About a week ago, I went out to Hongdae with a couple of my guy friends from my neighborhood.  These particular friends of mine aren’t very interested or good at talking to women, so it was mostly a day of us hanging out as guys and having a couple of beers.  By the time we got to Hongdae, it was about 11pm.  Perfect, I thought.  I walked into the first bar, and I couldn’t have been more turned off.  Everything just seemed very banal and uninteresting.  None of the girls were grabbing my attention.  I tried to talk to a couple of them only to be completely blown out, and I just shrugged it off and left.  My buddy was laughing at me for acting old and grumpy, and I was getting the results to show for that attitude.

A little while later, we met up with my buddy’s girlfriend and her two friends.  I immediately started talking with the friends, but now instead of a busy bar or club, I was in a low-key outdoor setting.  I was just meeting new people and having a basic chat, and all the sudden it was back on.  From that point on, my presence, style, and game only improved until I wound up one-nighting with a flight attendant.

What was the difference between the first half of the night and the second?

Momentum. [Read more…] about The Importance of Momentum

Never Stop Spinning Plates

September 2, 2015 by Jack North 1 Comment

Recently while talking to my friend Stallion, I asked him about one of his girls that I had met a couple of weeks before.  He looked confused for a minute, then said, “Oh her?  Yeah we’re finished.”  Then we both laughed a bit, clinked our beers, and started talking about her new replacement in his rotation.

This got me thinking about my other friend Shooter and what was different about these two.  Both are young and good with women.  Both have solid game and a decent understanding of the female mind, but they had completely different reactions when things ended with a girl.  I realized that it was because while Shooter had more than one girl going at a time, he let them stagnate and he made the mistake of getting too attached.  Stallion had the right idea.

Never stop spinning plates. [Read more…] about Never Stop Spinning Plates

Do Not Invest in Korean Women

September 1, 2015 by Jack North 5 Comments

Recently one of my close friends in Korea, Shooter, decided to leave the country after a couple of years here.  He loved it here, he had a great job and a ton of friends, and never had any trouble getting attention from women when he went out.  So why did he decide to leave?  Why did he decide to go back to being jobless in the states living with his parents?

Because of a breakup. [Read more…] about Do Not Invest in Korean Women

Don’t Tinder Korea

August 13, 2015 by Jack North 20 Comments

Tinder is the biggest possible waste of your time and energy if you’re looking to meet Korean girls.

It’s a microcosm of shitty American culture coming to Korea and being made even worse.  Every interaction begins with you providing the girl with instant validation of her looks, which in and of itself is not a good beginning.  Then 99% of the time, you have to send messages first and show direct interest, further weakening your hand.  If she even bothers responding to your dancing bear intro or terrible pun, you’re in a situation where you almost have to play into her hand just to get her to meet face to face.  It’s a lazy and weak way of trying to meet girls in general, and it especially doesn’t work in Korea.
[Read more…] about Don’t Tinder Korea

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