Last week while I was cooking at home, I spilt some boiling grease and burned myself pretty badly. I called one of my local regulars to come over to bandage me up, and she came right over. Until now, this girl has actually been a bit cold and distant, despite having already banged a few times. I wasn’t sure if she was going to be able to stick around much longer, but then I gave her the chance to come over and take care of me, and she jumped at the opportunity.
It made me realize something simple about the nature of women. They want to be nurturing. They want to be feminine. They want to take care of you.
No matter how much feminists and the women “oppressed by the patriarchy” tell you that women don’t like traditional female roles, the fact is that it’s bred into them. There’s a part of their brains that makes them more empathetic and nurturing toward those they care about. Not only do they enjoy caring for you on a base and primal level, but it also strengthens their bond to you.
Since making the local come over to take care of me, she has been much nicer toward me in other ways as well. She is much more responsive to any requests I make of her, and she swings by of her own volition to check on me and make sure I’m okay. A girl who was initially distant and despondent is now much warmer and more caring.
Taking care of you doesn’t necessarily have to be from a physical wound like my situation was, it could be something like cooking a meal, organizing your apartment, or really anything. I’ve found that, especially in Korea, women love to do their part and chip in to help you out. This is also a good strategy for extracting utility out of the girls you date.
The key to this is to not seem needy, but rather to make them feel needed and appreciated. This strategy has helped me many times before with elongating particularly convenient FWB relationships, as well as getting more bang for my buck… and for my bang. If I’m going to keep a girl around for more than just a few sperm deposits, I would like her to bring something more to the table than just what she’s got between her legs. And as it turns out, they’re more than happy to do just that. In fact, I just met a girl today, no bang or even a kiss yet, but she’s coming over to cook dinner for me at my house in two days…
Simply put, when you show that you are a man of value, women love finding ways to show their value to you in return.