The Seoul Player

And the Korean Women who Love Him

The 3-Day Rule

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I’ve heard, as I’m sure you all have, the mysterious rule about not calling a girl for 3 days after getting her number.  This is supposed to show that you’re not needy and let her think about how much she likes you and wants to see you again.  It was also a rule that was clearly devised before the age of smartphones, OKCupid, and Tinder.  I have a different 3-Day rule that I always try to apply, and it’s shown itself to be much more effective than the prehistoric version of not calling / messaging them.

From the time you get her number, you have 3 days to set up the first date. [Read more…] about The 3-Day Rule

Ditch Her

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After a long weekend of approaches and getting numbers, you start sending out the Monday messages and try to organize your dates for the week.  You get a few bites and set up the details.  Then you show up to meet the girl, and something isn’t working for you.  Maybe she was hotter after a few beers on Saturday night.  Maybe her voice sounds like fingernails on a chalk board.  Maybe you just aren’t that interested and you’d rather be playing pool with your buddy instead.

Just let her know the date is over and leave.  Ditch her. [Read more…] about Ditch Her

Be The One She Remembers

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Last night I was talking to a friend, and he mentioned a girl he had met the weekend before but didn’t hook up with.  She seemed pretty interested in him that night evidently, but now the line has gone dead.  I asked him for more details and he said they talked and drank together for a few hours, then she went home and he went his own way feeling good about their interaction.  Why isn’t she contacting him now?

Simple.  He didn’t stand out in her mind. [Read more…] about Be The One She Remembers

The Only Way to Get Laid

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While every man would like to be able to go out and get laid on demand, the unfortunate reality is that it’s just not possible, even for those who have been practicing and refining their game for years.  This is especially true in Korea where most girls are much more resistant to same night lays than their western counterparts.  In addition to that, there will be plenty of girls who are just not into you.  In order to find one girl that you actually like who wants to sleep with you on that one given night, how many approaches do you think you would need to do?  Unless you are exceptionally good looking, wealthy, or somehow famous I’m guess that number would be at least 20, and that’s if your game with Koreans is super tight.  If you’re new to game or to Korea, that number goes up substantially. [Read more…] about The Only Way to Get Laid

Always Go for Gold

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When you go out to try to meet women, it’s important that you push every interaction to the absolute maximum that you possibly can.  Even if the logistics aren’t right or the timing is strange, it doesn’t matter, you should always get as much physical reward as possible from a girl you’re talking to.

Go for the kiss.  If she rejects it or pulls away, laugh it off and try again later.  Make her give you a kiss on the cheek if that’s the most you can get.  If she goes for the kiss, squeeze her ass.  Find a dark place and make out together.  Finger bang her in the park.  Take her out and try to get a taxi back home together.  If you get her back home, don’t waste time.  Get her on the bed and get her undressed.  Do however much she lets you.  Go for gold. [Read more…] about Always Go for Gold