When you go out to try to meet women, it’s important that you push every interaction to the absolute maximum that you possibly can. Even if the logistics aren’t right or the timing is strange, it doesn’t matter, you should always get as much physical reward as possible from a girl you’re talking to.
Go for the kiss. If she rejects it or pulls away, laugh it off and try again later. Make her give you a kiss on the cheek if that’s the most you can get. If she goes for the kiss, squeeze her ass. Find a dark place and make out together. Finger bang her in the park. Take her out and try to get a taxi back home together. If you get her back home, don’t waste time. Get her on the bed and get her undressed. Do however much she lets you. Go for gold.
The beauty of this strategy is that it works no matter your goal. If you’re just trying to get laid, it quickly weeds out time wasters and gets you to the finish line quicker. If you’re trying to meet a girl for a relationship, it puts you head and shoulders above any of her other suitors that haven’t slept with her yet. Do you think she wants a relationship with the guy afraid to hold her hand or with the guy that took charge and banged her brains out? Pretty easy choice there.
In all my years of dealing with women, I’ve never seen a girl punish a man for trying to take it further. If you get the kiss and try to push farther, she might slap your hand away playfully, but she never gets mad about it. Men want sex, and it’s not a secret. Treating it like the elephant in the room does nothing to help your Casanova cred. If anything, she’ll punish the man that doesn’t try for it. It’s much easier to forget the man you talked with for two hours, much harder to forget the guy you blew on a rooftop above a bar party.