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Game in a Nutshell – The Conversation, aka Making the Sale

September 10, 2020 by Jack North 2 Comments

What’s going on players?

A while back, I wrote the first part in the Game in a Nutshell series where I taught you all about how to approach girls. I went through it step by step and gave multiple different openers you can use and detailed exactly how to use them with examples.

Now that you’ve actually approached her though… What comes next?

Today we’re going to go through the conversation that you should have with a woman once you’ve approached her, and I’m going to break down every single part of it for you!

Some good news for you older (or more culturally literate) fellows out there – you already know the steps to follow! As Alec Baldwin famously taught us in Glengarry Glen Ross, you need to follow AIDA: Attention, Interest, Decision, Action.

Going through them step by step, I’m going to detail exactly how you can 1) Get Her Attention, 2) Generate Interest, 3) Bring Her to Decision, and 5) Get Her to Act.

NOTE: Throughout this guide, I give rough time estimates of how long things should take. These are not exact, but instead are a rough guide for an ‘average’ interaction. These assume that the approach is happening on the street. If you’re in a bar or other venue where you can chat longer, things will go a bit longer. Experiment with using more or less of the different steps to find what works best for your style in different venues and locations.

Step 1 – Get Her Attention (The Opener)

How to Deal With Bad Logistics in 4 Easy Steps

August 5, 2020 by Jack North Leave a Comment

As we all already know, logistics are king when it comes to getting laid. While this is true everywhere, it is especially true in large Korean cities like Seoul or Busan.

I’m not entirely sure why, but the mindset of distance completely changes depending on where you live. A girl will be very willing to travel an hour or more to get to your place if it’s somewhere inside of Seoul, but living even slightly outside of the city limits will significantly limit the amount of prime pussy you can get from Seoul.

I know this first hand because I used to live in a pretty rundown part of Seoul, far in the southeast corner. The neighborhood is completely out of the way, even with Seoul’s excellent public transit. As a reference point, door to door I was about an hour from Itaewon and about an hour and a half from Hongdae station. This didn’t dissuade girls from all over the city one bit. They would come visit from all different parts of Seoul without batting an eye.

Later, I moved to an area 25 minutes west of Hongdae by subway, but because I wasn’t technically in Seoul anymore, only the thirstiest of girls were willing to make the trip out there.

Since most Korean girls live with their families, you can’t really go to their places. That severely limits your options when dealing with Seoul girls. Motels and DVD rooms are always an option, but with motel prices going up each year (now around 80k for a Friday or Saturday night in prime locations) I generally tend to avoid them. I would make an exception to break a cold streak, but renting one each weekend would be prohibitively expensive and not really worth it. DVD rooms are a last resort for me because it’s just nasty and I don’t want any part of me touching those jizz-stained sofas.

As a side note, I also have found that girls’ anti-slut defenses go up quickly if you try to go for a motel or DVD room. It seems to be much easier to convince them to come to your home where you hopefully have some excuse or draw to get them to come over.

That all still leaves us with the burning question – If I have bad logistics, what can I do to improve my success rate?

The PlayCast Episode 5 – Interview with Kether from Pickup Korea

July 29, 2020 by Jack North 4 Comments

What’s going on players?

Earlier this week, I was chatting with my friend (and forum member) Kether from Pickup Korea, and we were talking about our different views and tactics on game here in Korea.

We decided that the best way to get this information out to you guys was to record it as a podcast!

In this episode of the PlayCast, Kether and I talk about some of the challenges we’ve been facing since the outbreak of Covid-19, our different views on when to wear a mask or when to open in Korean, and the best part – Nightmare Coaching Scenarios! We tell you guys about some of the hardest coaching sessions we’ve had so that you can avoid those mistakes yourself!

I hope you guys enjoy this interview, and if there are any other people you’d like me to have on the PlayCast, send me an email and let me know!

Or better yet – post it in the forum so we can all discuss it together!

Til next time, players!

-Jack

Top 5 Hot Tips for Getting Laid in the Summer

July 7, 2020 by Jack North Leave a Comment

What’s up, players?

As I’m sure you know, summer time is prime time for getting laid everywhere in the world. That is true nowhere more than Korea. This place is an absolute gold mine….

IF you know what to do.

But don’t worry boys, that’s exactly why Papa Jack is here at your side. And as everyone’s favorite digital wingman, I have a few special tips that will help you start this summer with a bang. Today I’m focusing specifically on this most wonderful time of the year when everyone’s ready to get hot and sweaty! So cancel your long date with Palmela Handerson and get ready to go out for some real action!

1. Let’s Get Wet!

The first summer activity most people think of is swimming. And where do you go swimming? The pool, right?

Dead wrong, son.

Pools in Korea are the absolute worst. They’re full of kids all the time, and I’m assuming that’s not your thing. Even if you’re lucky enough to find one of the rare no-kids pools, it will be full of ajeosshis who think they’re Michael Phelps. Basically, just skip the pools.

There is one very notable exception to this rule however – Pool Parties.

The Hamilton Hotel near Itaewon station has a pool that people who aren’t guests can access for a modest fee, and it’s a great place to hang out in the water with some of the hottest girls in Korea. If you’re reading this article on release, then you’re in luck because they just opened up last weekend for the summer! They also have pool parties there most weekends with food, beer, and DJs.

There are also pool parties around Korea with different event organizers and groups all summer long. You can find these on Facebook or Meetup without much trouble. These are excellent for meeting hot girls, and many of the groups even travel outside of Seoul for their parties, making weekend hookups a foregone conclusion.

The Weirdest First Date

October 11, 2016 by Jack North Leave a Comment

Today I’m going to try something new on request from several readers. Instead of just giving advice or explaining situations, I’m telling an actual story of something that happened during my time dating around here in Korea. If I get a favorable response from these, I’ll continue telling my other stories as well. Some will be of success, some will be of failure, and some will just be of the notably weird, but all will be true and show a part of the dating life as a foreigner in Korea.

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Anyone who dates around a lot is bound to have some pretty weird first date stories, and I am no stranger to bad first dates. This particular girl however even surprised me with how incredibly weird and awkward she made our first date.

This story happened back in May, when I was not drinking for a month as an experiment to see if I could still get laid completely sober. I had hooked up with an airline stewardess who lived nearby on a Tuesday night and the next morning we took my dog, Simba, out for a walk and she was heading home. A few minutes after parting ways with the stewardess, I saw a cute girl also walking a dog.

Simba, being much like me, ran up to the other one and started trying to hump it immediately. The girl and I both laughed and started talking. After about a 15 minute chat, she asked for my number (a huge signal of interest) and we parted ways, agreeing to meet up on Friday for a date.

She immediately began messaging me regularly with great enthusiasm, always a good sign. We banter back and forth for a couple of days and she seems genuinely excited about the date.

Now before I get to the date, let me tell you a little about the girl. She’s 22, very cute but not sexy, exactly the style I normally go for. Probably a 6-8 on most guys’ scales, depending on how much you like the cute factor. She speaks minimal to no English, so we’re communicating entirely in Korean. Because of these factors, I can immediately rule her out as being a Foreigner Lover. She tells me that she doesn’t drink at all, so she’s not an Attention Whore or an Alcoholic, and she just recently broke up with her first and only boyfriend so she’s likely not a Slut. I narrow down that she’s probably a mix between a Prude and a Friend. [Read more…] about The Weirdest First Date